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• The unexpected kiss planted on her lips might look great in the movies, but it's NOT something you want to do! Unexpected kisses can be awkward, and she'll be left thinking, "What just happened?" rather than feeling on fire.
   
• DON'T initiate a kiss in a public place. Although the movies often portray kissing in the middle of a crowded subway or busy street as ultra romantic (since the lead characters have no inhibitions to letting the world know how they feel), the first kiss is a fragile thing that can wither quickly if offered to the full light of the world. DO wait until you are by yourselves and undisturbed. The first kiss should be a private, intimate moment between two people, and it is your job to find a place where that will happen.
   
• Avoid hot days. If you're planning the perfect moment to kiss, wait until the weather has taken a turn for the cooler. You don't want to kiss her when you're both all moist and sweaty. On the other hand, if it's a bit chilly outside, you have the perfect justification for getting a bit closer to share some body heat.
   
• Avoid awkward positions. Don't try to kiss her when the two of you are sitting with something separating you (like a table, or a steering wheel) and are unable to face one another comfortably. Cars are usually bad places for first kisses, because they are so uncomfortable. This means that you should NOT kiss her from the side or have to turn your head or twist your body. Face her directly ... you'll maintain better eye contact that way as well.
   
• DON'T bump heads. When you move in to kiss her, do so slowly and pause just before your lips meet to make eye contact with her. If her head is tilted back and her eyes are closed, you're in luck. If her chin is down and she's got her lips pressed tight, slowly ease back and explore her face with your eyes. Let her know that you're interested in getting closer to her--not doing anything that she doesn't want.
   
• Go slow. First kisses should be slow, soft, gentle, exploratory--not the mad, passionate lip-locking you see in the movies. A first kiss that is too aggressive can seem threatening and turn a girl's interest off immediately. Your first kiss should feel like it is in slow motion. The sensations will feel heightened, and you'll be able to notice her responses more clearly.
   
• No tongue. A first kiss is like a simple handshake or introduction. It is NOT a sexual act that will lead to the bedroom. As a result, keep your first kiss SENSUAL instead, and keep your tongue firmly in your mouth. Many women feel uncomfortable French-kissing on a first kiss, because they prefer to wait until they know the person better.
   
• DON'T grope. If she has let you kiss her, she has given you her trust. Don't betray it by feeling up her booty or letting your hands slide under her shirt. Remember that allowing you to kiss her is NOT the same as permission to sleep with her. Rather, it is the first step in earning her trust.
   
• DO incorporate touch. You may wish to add to the sensations of your kiss by laying your hands LIGHTLY on her arms, her chin, or the back of her neck. You may wish to run your hands through her hair, or place a hand on the small of her back to bring her to you.
   
• DON'T make a first kiss into a major lip-locking session. Break away first. Draw back, let both of your hearts stop racing, then meet her eyes. If you keep the first kiss short, even if you're both enjoying it, you will leave the taste of the experience lingering in her mouth. As a result, she'll want to see you again ... and again.

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